what makes 2 people click?

have you ever wondered just what it is?
is it chemistry? astrological? fate? i myself dont have a clue, but i often wonder..
when you cant quite explain why you get along with someone so well, why you trust them almost automatically, and have no fear of this almost complete stranger.
when there is no void in conversation, no silent awkwardness, and you could talk forever about practically nothing at all. when saying goodbye is hard, and more often than not, prolonged by an extra mini conversation inbetween the initial goodbye and the actual one, then when you do leave you replay the meeting or get together in your head, with a smile, and feel happy.

so take that in itself and its odd, how two strangers can connect, then you put the internet in the mix and it gets even more strange. there is no voice, no facial expresions, and you depend on question marks, exclamation points and smiley's to get your point across.
and when you can do that and still have an interesting conversation, again, with no awkward silence, and its even harder to say goodbye, or type it rather..
its facinating to me.

this doesnt happen often to me, the honest feeling of connection. its actually only happened a handful of times, and i think its because i only open myself up to certain ones or let certain ones in.. i'm not sure. maybe if i opened up to more people, there would be more connections, but there's a gut feeling i have to have, a feeling of ACCEPTANCE. i just learned that this week, thanks to a very special friend of mine who seems to know me better than i know myself. but acceptance would be another blog in itself. i'll save that for tomorrow.

so, to my recent connection, i just want to say thank you, for good conversation, laughs, and ACCEPTANCE!.. there is no better gift.


xoxo